We All Have Choices...

Dear Friends

Today I thought of taking a break from my regular writing on ROI blogs...One of my colleague suggested me to write on 'choices' people have....

COMPLAINTS..COMPLAINTS COMPLAINTS....

That is what we all hear ....The list is endless

1. Boss never listens. He is biased.
2. I am broke.
3. Too much of traffic every where.
4. Now-a-days children are not bothered.
5. Train is always late.
6. Flights are always delayed.
7. It is very hot....

So on and so forth endless complaints...

In my coaching sessions when the audinece complaints about something...I remind them that they have a CHOICE.

"Choice, how do I have a choice?" they ask. "I have no choice if my boss doesn't listen".

Ofcourse you have..provided you know you have one. Best thing if you really donot like your boss or like the company, you have a choice to  leave that company. Remember the similar situation may repeat in other companies also..so better exercise your choices.

So what are the choices we have

FOR ANY SITUATION, A PERSON HAS INFINITE POSSIBILITIES AND CHOICES TO MAKE, PROVIDED HE/SHE WANTS TO EXERCISE THOSE CHOICES...then things are easy 

Situation                                                                                      Choice

1. Boss never listens. He is biased.               To leave the company, can you?
2. I am broke.                                                Explore possibilities to earn more, can  you?               
3. Too much of traffic every where.              Go and stay where traffic is less, can you?
4. Now-a-days children are not bothered.     Live your own life not of children, can you?       
5. Train is always late.                                   Atleast you have resources. Catch the next                                                                                    train, can you?
6. Flights are always delayed.                       Explore the airport, read something, talk                                                                                        to fellow passengers. Atleast you have                                                                                            resources which you can use, can you?
7. How hot it is....                                          Go and stay in cold climate...can you? We                                                                                     are responsible for global warming.

So instead of being dragged in the negativity of emotions such as complaint, get angry, frustrated, blame others, irritated, jealous, worry, tension, resentment, guilt, judgemental, greed, helplessness, and getting stressed, why not go with the flow and explore the possibilities of CHOICES...and be 100% responsible for our life...

Are you willing to explore???

Sonali

wagle.sonali@gmail.com